Being able to connect with other humans is one of our most basic desires, whether you admit it or not.
Yet so few people know how at a most fundamental level. There are those who have trained themselves and have become experts, and it shows like a golden thread throughout their lives.
Some people again just don’t want to make the effort to relate with others for various reasons. To my own embarrassment I used to fall under this category. I was of the opinion that I did not need to talk to others as I was comfortable with my own conversation.
This was a mistake!
There is no amount of success you will attain without being able to connect with people on an emotional level.
Because of my demeanor and personal choices in the past, I seldom made the effort to build meaningful relationships. I would like to share with you a few aspects of this character in order for you to stay well clear of them. They will only block your career path and generally make you a misery to be around:
Say as little as possible when other, more balanced people try and have a conversation with you
• Do not speak into someone`s life
• Be concerned only with that which affects you.
• Stay at home and watch TV every night
• eye contact when talking to others
• street move to the opposite side
• Involved in other’s lives
As you can gather you need to be an overall miserable Stick-in-the-mud. You would be surprised how many are out there, beware!